Attending church service as a family can strengthen your faith and be a nice bonding experience. However, young children don’t generally sit quietly for a full hour without some guidance. Here’s how you can make the church-going experience easier and help everyone enjoy mass each week. 

How to Attend Mass With Young Children

1. Set a Positive Example

Kids learn by watching the adults closest to them. If they see that weekly mass is important to you, they’ll also begin to care about it. Along with attending church together, praying before meals or bedtime will show children how much you care about your faith. 

2. Attend to Their Basic Needs Beforehand

Young kids are more likely to fuss during mass if they’re hungry or uncomfortable. Before leaving your home, ensure they’re fed, changed, and have weather-appropriate clothing. 

Babies and young toddlers can benefit from a small sweater or blanket, providing extra comfort during service. Also, have kids use the bathroom right before leaving to prevent discomfort and distractions.

3. Keep Them Near the Action

Kids are often more engaged with the mass if they can see the altar. Though you may feel self-conscious initially, choose a seat near the front and consider holding young kids for part of the church service.

If they cry or exclaim briefly, stay in the pew; most parishioners can handle a few small outbursts, as they are normal for kids. However, take them to the back if they cry for an extended period and return to mass when they calm down.

4. Talk With Them

Before mass, explain to young children what will happen and what is expected of them. Express why the church service is important to you and how you hope the entire family can enjoy the experience together. After mass, praise them for their good behavior or gently suggest ways they could improve.

If you’re looking for a weekly church service to enjoy with the entire family, head to St. Catherine of Alexandria Parish in Kapaa, HI. The Catholic church is the largest parish on Kauai, with three locations throughout the island. Founded in 1886, they welcome all who want to strengthen their faith and provide extra programs for children. Visit the website to register as a new parishioner, and call (808) 822-7900 for mass times and locations.