Becoming a foster parent is a wonderful way to give a child in need a safe home. Whether you've already committed to fostering or are just considering it, if you're fostering for the first time, you likely have some concerns. It's perfectly normal to be nervous. Voicing your concerns is an essential first step in addressing them, ensuring a positive experience for all involved. Read on for a quick guide to common foster parent concerns and solutions.

3 Worries All Foster Parents Have

1. Inability to Handle Difficult Behavior

Foster kids may come from difficult backgrounds including traumatic experiences. A lack of stability in early life can result in behavioral issues and developmental setbacks. As a foster parent, educating yourself about potential hurdles, their symptoms, and how to handle them will prepare you accordingly. Ask the relevant social worker for any relevant information before a child arrives. Further, keep in mind you aren't solely responsible. Coordinating care and comparing notes with social workers and teachers will provide the child with the holistic care they deserve.

2. Lack of Experience

If you've never had kids of your own, you may be worried that your "lack of experience" will be a drawback. Keep in mind that no parent is expected to be perfect. Everyone is learning as they go. Further, every child is unique—having kids of your own wouldn't necessarily prepare you for having foster kids. Alleviate your concerns by reading parenting books and joining support groups or online forums for foster parents.

3. Becoming Too Attached

It's normal to develop an attachment to your foster children, which can make it hard to process the "loss" when they move on. Acknowledge that there will be a grieving process. This is another point where joining support groups or online forums with other foster parents can help. This fear may be coupled with a worry that your foster child will forget you. Rest assured, if you give a child a loving home, stability, and support in a difficult time, they will certainly appreciate and remember you.

You can help allay fears about becoming a foster parent through open communication with the fostering organization you work with. Lifespan Family Services of DuBois, PA, coordinates foster care and has helped many parents grapple with concerns like these. They work with families all across Pennsylvania, including Armstrong and Indiana counties, and Kittanning. Visit their website or call (814) 375-1314 to find out more about their services.