Whether you're new at being foster parents or you've done it many times, taking in a teen can always be a difficult transition. The foster care system isn't easy for children to navigate, and when they come into your home, they might not yet be ready to fully integrate into it. That's all part of the process, and you can make it a more smooth transition with these helpful tips. 

3 Tips for Fostering Teens

1. Communicate Readily

Communication is one of your most important tools when connecting with someone, and children need solid, caring communication more than most. It helps them feel like they're part of the group, and it also helps build trust. When communicating with your foster child, it shouldn't feel like an interrogation. Instead, it should be a back-and-forth, a two-way road. Tell them about yourself as much as you ask about them, and show them who you are and what you like. If they're hesitant to communicate at first, respect that boundary, but always be clear that you're leaving lines of communication open for when they're ready. 

2. Bond Over Food

Food is an integral part of human relationships, and there's always something to bond over when it comes to food. Early on while fostering, try to learn some of your child's favorite foods and snacks, and make them often as a sign of good will and intention. You may even be able to convince your child to help you make their favorites, and you can bond over the shared activity. 

3. Give Them Space

As a new foster parent, it can be hard to leave your child alone or watch them hurt. However, it's important that they have space to feel their feelings and be themselves, and you can't always be party to that. Just like you have boundaries, so will your child, and at first, those boundaries are likely to be much broader and more sensitive. Engage with your child as often as possible, but don't forget to give them space and time alone. 

If you're looking to become a foster parent, reach out to LifeSpan Family Services in DuBois, PA. This nonprofit corporation is dedicated to placing foster children into loving homes where they can thrive and grow. Learn more about their services online, and call (814) 375-1314 to connect with their adoption specialists today.