A gemstone ring as a symbol of a promise isn’t a new idea. Engagement rings have been traditional for hundreds of years, with the classic diamond ring becoming prevalent in the 1940s. However, promise rings are different from classic engagement bands. They have a wider array of possible meanings—even including a promise to oneself. Learn more in the following guide.

The Origins of the Promise Ring

In ancient Rome, the law dictated that a couple getting married had to wait a certain time between announcing their engagement and getting married. During this waiting period, brides-to-be wore rings to symbolize their commitment to marriage. This tradition is the historical root of both wedding rings and promise rings.

Messages in Jewelry

By the 15th century, English sweethearts would give rings as gifts for many reasons, not just as promises of marriage. One type that remained popular from the 15th through 17th centuries was the posy or posie ring. The name comes from the French “poésie.” This means poetry since the rings were often inscribed with poems and other messages meaningful to the couple.

This tradition was later replaced with the trend of Acrostic rings. These were gemstone rings and sometimes other pieces of jewelry, in which the first letters of the stones’ names were used to spell out a word. For example, if the giver wanted to tell the recipient they were adored, they might gift their loved one a gemstone ring with an amethyst, a diamond, an onyx, a ruby, an emerald, and another diamond, lined up in a row. These bands were used to remind the wearers of various messages and ideas.

Modern Uses

Today’s promise rings are used in many ways. For some couples, they’re a promise to get engaged someday. Other people choose rings for themselves to remind themselves of a commitment, like abstaining until marriage or giving up alcohol. Friends may exchange rings in the same way that children make friendship bracelets. Couples that aren’t yet married or don’t intend to get married may still give each other rings as signs of other kinds of commitment.

Since the purpose behind each piece is so personal and unique, the rings are just as varied. Some have gemstones and may look like traditional engagement rings, while others could use the Acrostic system to spell out a message. Some rings are simple gold bands, and others may boast details, such as two strands twisted together. When choosing a promise ring, the only important factor is whether the design speaks to you.

If you’re looking for a band or a gemstone ring, visit Schwartz Jewelers in Cincinnati, OH. This business has been serving Hamilton County for over 70 years. They offer a wide selection of quality designs, including pieces from Simon G.®, Bellarri®, Gabriel & Co.®, and PANDORA®. Call (513) 541-5627 to have your questions answered by a knowledgeable team member, or view their inventory online.