Cemeteries are a sacred space where people can visit their departed loved ones. Though many people only visit cemeteries during burial services, there are others who regularly go to visit the graves of deceased spouses, parents, siblings, and friends. Quincy Memorials has helped families in Quincy, MA, with funeral plans for over 60 years. According to their experts, it’s important to observe proper etiquette during a burial service or in a cemetery.

Here are a few tips on how to be as respectful as possible when visiting a cemetery:

• Be Mindful of Children: Having children attend the funeral or burial of a parent or beloved family member is important for understanding death. However, remind them that a cemetery is not a playground and they should not run or climb near or around the graves and tombstones.
• Do Not Make Unnecessary Noise: It is common to pray, converse quietly, cry, or even weep in a cemetery. However, shouting, vulgar language, music, or other loud noises should be avoided as they can interrupt other mourners.
• When Driving, Remain On The Path: Virtually all cemeteries have a path for cars that winds around the grass. Never drive on the grass itself.
• Be Mindful Of Other Ceremonies: If you are visiting the grave of a loved one, you may notice a funeral procession or burial service happening nearby. Do not interrupt the service, walk through the procession, or otherwise interrupt their ceremony in any way.
• Be Respectful: Above everything else, remain respectful of both the living and the dead when visiting a cemetery. A cemetery should be a peaceful place for the deceased to rest and for their families to feel close to them again. Be certain that your presence does not do not do anything to disturb that peace.

With these tips in mind, you will be able to visit the cemetery in a respectful manner. If you are planning a funeral and looking for information on grave markers, funeral urns, and more, call (617) 471-0250 or visit the Quincy Memorial website.