Going through with a divorce is a life-changing event. Ending the union affects not just you and your spouse but also impacts family and friends on both sides of the marriage. Before announcing you want a divorce, here are a few points to consider.

3 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Deciding to Divorce

1. How Will Ending the Marriage Affect My Children?

If you and your spouse have children together, think about what is in their best interest. Considerations include how divorce affects them as individuals and as siblings, in their relationship with parents, other family members, friends, and peers. Their ages, emotional maturity, and specific needs affect how they respond. When marriages include children who know they are adopted, a family breakup may have a unique psychological impact on their sense of security.  

2. Am I Making an Emotional Decision?

Deciding to file for divorce in a fit of anger or to retaliate against your spouse for some real or perceived wrong may be unwise in the long run. Counseling and a temporary separation may help you examine whether the problems are such that the two of you can work them out with help. On the other hand, if you realize the relationship is physically or psychologically dangerous for you, divorce may be the best solution to protect yourself from harm.   

3. Do I Have a Plan for the Future?

Pre-divorce planning helps ensure a successful transition from marriage to singlehood. Develop a positive mindset, focus on forgiving yourself and your spouse, learn from past mistakes, and look forward to making a better life for yourself and your children. Hiring an experienced family law attorney can guide you in planning to address issues such as dividing assets and debts, making living arrangements, resolving child custody and visitation, and obtaining financial support.

If you need advice and representation in a divorce case, seek help from  Larry J. Keller Attorney at Law of Waterloo, IL. This seasoned family law attorney applies over 30 years of experience to help spouses considering divorce to examine their options and make plans for bright futures. Visit the website for more about his practice areas. For a consultation appointment to discuss your situation, call (618) 939-8999.