If someone close to you has lost a relative, it's always a nice gesture to show your support by attending the funeral. Sadly, there are times when it may not be feasible or practical to attend following a death. You can still show your love in other meaningful and impactful ways. Here are a few suggestions for supporting a grieving loved one if you can't attend a memorial service. 

4 Ways to Support Someone Who Is Grieving If You Can't Attend the Funeral 

1. Send Sympathy Flowers

Flowers are a beautiful gift for someone who is grieving. The simple gesture of sending a bouquet to a loved one helps them know that you're thinking about them during this time of loss. 

Various types of flowers have different meanings, so it's helpful to do some research before you finalize your selections. Roses, orchids, hydrangeas, carnations, and lilies are among some of the most common choices. 

2. Call/video chat with the Friend or Relative

Thanks to modern technology, you can connect with friends and relatives in seconds. A video chat or phone call is a great way to show your love for someone. 

Allow your friend or relative to guide this conversation, as some people may struggle with sharing their feelings following the death of a loved one. Try to be a sympathetic listener and offer support throughout the conversation. 

3. Make a Donation in the Deceased’s Name

Honor your loved one by making a donation to a cause that they supported during their lifetime. Whether it's a local food clinic, a human rights organization, or an animal sanctuary, you can celebrate your loved one's life through charitable giving. Their surviving loved ones will appreciate the thoughtful gesture. 
 

4. Take Time Off Work to Visit at Some Point

Although it may not be convenient for you to visit your loved one now, you can set aside time in the future to see them in person. This may even be a better alternative than trying to combine the funeral with a visit since you'll have more time to spend together during a future trip. Further, they won't have to stress about hosting guests or receiving visitors while they're in the fresh stages of grief.

If you are supporting a loved one through the funeral planning process, Mihovk-Rosenacker Funeral Home can help. They're a family-owned funeral home that guides families through pre-planning, funeral services, and cremation needs. Visit them online or speak with a compassionate member of their team by calling (513) 385-0511.