The passing of a loved one is a challenging time, not only because you are dealing with grief but also because you may be in charge of funeral plans or writing an obituary. In the second case, you want to create a loving tribute to the family member but might not know what to include and leave out. Use this guide to compose an obituary that focuses on what was most important about their life. 

What Is the General Structure of an Obituary?

An obituary typically begins with the name, age, and city of residence of the deceased. It should include the date and cause of death, but the cause of death is optional and may be left out if desired. The obituary should also mention the surviving family members, such as children, spouse, parents, and siblings.

The next part of the obituary usually includes details about the life of the deceased. This part can include information about their education, career, hobbies, interests, and accomplishments. It is also common to mention any religious or community involvement they had.

Finally, the obituary should include information about the funeral service and any other memorial events. It should mention the date, time, and location of the funeral and any visitation hours.

What Is Usually Left Out?

While it may sound straightforward, people's lives are often complex, which can lead you to debate how or if to incorporate certain details. It is generally considered poor form to mention absentee parents, abusive spouses, second families, and affairs. 

Another sensitive topic can be the loved one’s cause of death. Family members often do not want obituaries to note this if it was especially traumatic or self-inflicted. 

It is important to remember that an obituary is a public document that will be read by many people. It should focus on the positive aspects of the deceased’s life and avoid sensitive or controversial topics, like the financial or criminal history.

Create a beautiful service for your loved one with Mihovk-Rosenacker Funeral Home. The compassionate staff offers two convenient locations in Cincinnati, OH, and a wide variety of services that have helped families say their goodbyes since 1906. Call (513) 385-0511 today to schedule an appointment or learn more about funeral services online.