The death of a loved one can take an emotional toll on the entire family. This is especially true for young children who might not understand the meaning of a funeral and that they will no longer see their departed relative or close friend. Here are steps to discussing the topic with your children. 

How to Talk to Kids About a Loved One's Death

1. Speak With Them Directly

Don't try to shelter your children from the loss of a loved one. They will likely notice the fact that the adults around them seem sad, tearful, and distraught. Overhearing conversations about the loss and not being told directly could be painful for your youngsters. To avoid further pain during this emotional time, sit your children down in a quiet, familiar place and let them know what has happened.

2. Simplify the Wording

In an attempt not to upset children, parents often use euphemisms such as "passed on" or "slipped away" when talking about death. Your children might not understand this type of indirect wording, which is why you should be as clear and direct as possible. Let your youngsters know that their loved one has died and share your own feelings about the loss. Knowing that you feel comfortable discussing your emotions might make your children more inclined to share their feelings, too. 

3. Be Ready to Answer Questions

If you're not sure how your children will respond to the news, be ready for any type of reaction. Let your children know it is OK to talk about what happened and reassure them that their feelings are valid. Your children might be confused about what happened, so be willing to answer questions regarding the death and what to expect at the funeral.

If you've recently lost a loved one, contact the funeral directors at family-owned and -operated Robert W. Waid Funeral Home in Meadville, PA. The venerable funeral home has been serving the Crawford County community for over a century. The compassionate staff will assist with every aspect of making funeral arrangements so you can concentrate on mourning the loss with your family. Learn more about funeral and cremation services online, and call (814) 724-1021 to discuss your needs with a member of the staff. Connect on Facebook for announcements.