Social media is difficult to navigate after attending a loved one’s funeral. The instinct to share the news with the world might be strong, but knowing when to hold off and give the family space is important. Fortunately, there are several steps that could prove helpful during the grieving process, so take a closer look at the following answers to determine how best to proceed. 

FAQ About Social Media and Funerals

How long should I wait to create a memorial post? 

Let the immediate family members be the first to share the news online. If you don’t see anything appearing within the following days, check to see how they would feel about you writing a short post. 

It’s possible that they don’t want their loss publicized on the internet and would rather keep it among their closest friends and relatives. On the other hand, they might not feel up to doing it themselves and would appreciate someone else taking the initiative to honor their memory. 

Is it OK to talk about the details? 

Unless you have the family’s approval, discussing the details of their passing isn’t something that should be done online. It can redirect the focus to the incident instead of the loss and cause the family to relive the moment. If questions come up, simply say that it’s not your place to share that information and leave it at that. 

Should I offer my condolences? 

Offering your condolences is essential when mourning the loss of a loved one. It’s a natural way to show support and lets the family know that you care. However, try considering alternate methods before creating an online post. Sending flowers or a card will help to protect their privacy and avoid drawing unwanted attention to the words you wrote. 

What happens to a deceased’s account? 

Social media accounts will usually remain open after a loved one’s passing, unless the family decides to deactivate them entirely. Another option is to turn the deceased's page into a memorial, which allows close friends and relatives to share treasured memories. If you want to write something, take a moment to think through what you’re going to share and ensure that it doesn’t contain anything too sensitive. 

For nine decades, Frederick Funeral Home has been working with families throughout Cincinnati, OH, and Colerain Township. This family-owned business offers an assortment of services, including traditional funerals and modern memorials, and are highly commended for their compassionate approach. Call (513) 522-3700 to schedule an appointment, or visit their website for additional information on their funeral planning services.