Getting married is a significant milestone in a couple’s life together. If you’ve been invited to attend a wedding, it’s an exciting opportunity to celebrate a loved one’s relationship, but knowing how to conduct yourself is essential to avoid embarrassment. From purchasing the correct wedding attire to understanding the catering instructions, these tips can help relieve the stress associated with wedding etiquette.

5 Tips for Proper Wedding Etiquette

1. Always RSVP & Don’t Cancel

The wedding couple needs to know the attendance before the day so they can finalize details, such as catering orders, seating plans, and table numbers. Canceling can cause the wedding party to be out-of-pocket for expenses you’re not enjoying. 

2. Don't Wear White Unless Asked

It's a serious wedding faux pas to wear white, even if there are no brides present, as it's a long-standing tradition. Wearing white could make it seem like you're competing with the bride on their big day. You can wear an outfit with some white, but never an all-white ensemble.

3. Don't Complain About Catering Options

If you have a serious food allergy or dietary restriction, let the bride and groom know well before the day of the wedding so they can ask the catering company to provide another food option for you. On the big day, it’s considered rude to complain about the food or catering.

4. Arrive On Time & Prepared

Arriving too early could cause the bride and groom extra stress if they aren't ready for their guests, while arriving late is disrespectful and could ruin photos. Stay in your car if you're over 30 minutes early and account for traffic, weather, and parking before leaving the house to make sure you’ll arrive on time.

5. Give a Gift Within Your Budget

Unless otherwise asked to give money or no gift at all, give a gift within your budget that a new couple will need for their new home or apartment. For example, a kettle or toaster is a thoughtful, modest gift the bride and groom will use daily.

If you, your family, or friends are looking for a scenic wedding venue in Madison County, KY, consider Jordan Hill Farm. This 85-acre countryside retreat can accommodate out-of-town guests for both a fully-catered reception and ceremony. You can also book the farm for family reunions, business retreats, and other special occasions. Visit their website for more information on their services, or call (859) 623-0807 to ask about available dates and special packages.