The passing of a loved one is always difficult, whether it was expected or not. If your family recently lost someone precious, planning a funeral can help provide some form of consolation. While everyone grieves differently, the following can be of real value during this time.

How a Funeral Aids the Grieving Process

1. Acknowledges the Loss

Denial is a common part of grief, as it can be hard to accept that a beloved family member, spouse, or friend has passed. Experiencing the burial or helping scatter the ashes provides an avenue for acknowledging the loss. 

Furthermore, it gives you an opportunity to say "goodbye." Whether you plan to give a speech or talk to the loved one in your head, it can be cathartic to tell them how their life and loss have affected you. It can also be beneficial to witness other “goodbyes” from relatives.  

2. Provides Support From Fellow Attendees

The support of friends and family proves invaluable after any loss by reminding you of how much love is still around you. You and some of your friends and family might decide to utilize grief counseling services together or work on community projects in your loved one’s name, such as planting trees at the local park. 

3. Encourages Reflection on the Loved One’s Life 

Many people often share stories about the loved one at a funeral, including those related to their interpersonal relationships, jobs, hobbies, and travels. Your service might include slideshow images of the person at various stages in their life, as well. This can be a bonding moment for all in attendance and also offer everyone new insights into the person that connects you. After the service, you may consider creating a social media page where people can continue to contribute anecdotes or pictures about the deceased to keep their memory alive.

Plan a funeral service with help from Shirley Brothers Mortuaries & Crematory. Serving Indianapolis, IN, since 1898, this family business provides online 24/7 grief counseling in addition to burial and cremation services. Call (317) 897-9606 today to make an appointment. Learn more about their offerings online.