After the passing of a close friend or family member, you could receive a request to deliver a eulogy at their funeral. This short speech of remembrance pays tribute to the departed. However, many who have never before given such a speech become anxious and uneasy about what is expected. Using the tips below will help guide you through the experience.

How to Deliver a Meaningful Funeral Eulogy

1. Select the Tone

Not all eulogies must be somber. Depending on the departed's personality and the circumstances of their death, you can remember them fondly and with humor. For instance, a lighthearted remembrance is appropriate if they lived a long, rich life and were known to be cheerful and energetic. However, avoid using humor if the deceased was young or died due to tragic circumstances. In this case, opt for a more serious, respectful tone instead.

2.  Introduce Yourself

Funerals draw many people, and some likely won't know who you are. Briefly introduce yourself, and explain your relationship with the departed. A sentence or two that provides context for the attendees should be sufficient. Once your introduction is complete, keep the focus on the deceased.

3. Offer Cherished Memories

A eulogy is a commemoration speech, so talk about your favorite memories of your lost loved one. They should depict what type of person the deceased was or show a side that few people got to see. 

You should choose and deliver memories with love and respect and not for entertainment purposes. Touch on many aspects of the person's life that you are familiar with, such as family, work, hobbies, and personal tastes.

If a loved one has passed and you need a funeral service that honors their life, contact Shirley Brothers Mortuaries & Crematory in Indianapolis, IN. This family-owned business has served clients throughout Marion County since its founding in 1898 and specializes in funerals, cremations, and burials. Their team also offers 24/7 online grief and healing counseling and can even help with funeral preplanning. Learn more about what they can do for you online, and call (317) 897-9606 to discuss your needs with a compassionate staff member.