Pallbearers are friends and family of the deceased who are given the immense honor of escorting the casket. The number of pallbearers at a funeral service typically ranges from six to eight people, and these people can be selected by the deceased prior to their death or the deceased's family members. Because the decision is so important, here are a few factors that can determine whether a person is a good pick. 

3 Factors to Consider When Choosing Pallbearers for a Funeral

1. Health and Wellness

Pallbearers are expected to carry a heavy load when escorting their loved one's casket. As a result, you must consider whether a person is physically capable of performing the task. While there will be many other people to provide a helping hand, the casket can still be quite heavy and cumbersome to handle. If there is a person you want to be included as a pallbearer, but feel they may lack the necessary physical ability, you can make them an honorary pallbearer who walks in proximity to the casket. 

2. Level of Bereavement

Most people are grieving when attending funerals, but some people may be harder hit than others. If you know a person is experiencing tumultuous emotions in the wake of a loved one's death, they may be better suited to another role during the service. For instance, a person can be invited to give a speech to express their love and affection for the person they lost, as opposed to escorting the casket. Being overwhelmed by emotion when carrying the casket can lead to major issues, and potentially disrupt the service. 

3. Willingness

Of course, even good candidates may not want to serve as pallbearers for one reason or another. For instance, they may want to focus on comforting their grieving loved ones during the funeral instead of participating. That's why you must speak with each of your selections well before the service to ensure they're onboard. Most people will be eager to play their part in the funeral service, but families can't assume participation without a discussion first. 

Since 1976, Northcutt & Son Home for Funerals has supported families throughout Morehead, KY. Along with helping families and individuals arrange funeral services, this kind and compassionate team can also provide resources to help you during the planning process. Staff is available 24/7 to answer your questions and always treats clients with the respect and dignity they deserve. Visit the website to learn more about their services, or call (606) 784-6491 to speak with a funeral director today.