Funeral flowers are a respectful way to express your condolences to a family who has lost a loved one. It’s a timeless tradition, and it’s always wise to stick to general etiquette. Following established guidelines will ensure you’re polite and leave a lasting impact on the recipients.

Do:

Include a message.

A message is your way of personalizing the funeral flowers. Attach a small note expressing your condolences or offering assistance, if the family needs it. The message doesn’t have to be complicated—just something that lets them know you care and are available.

Stick to traditional arrangements.

A variety of flowers are used in funerals, and it’s safest to stick with traditional arrangements. Send a beautiful basket, bouquet, or wreath. Condolence flowers, like pink carnations, lilies, and chrysanthemums, are all appropriate.

Don’t, however, deliver a casket cover since these are reserved for family members. Overly large or distracting arrangements can also be a physical burden.

Don’t:

Only send flowers to the funeral service.

If you missed the funeral, it’s still appropriate to send flowers. Have them delivered to the family’s home or call and ask for a convenient time for you to drop them off. Stick to the same guidelines about choosing an arrangement since large vases and displays are difficult to place on a table or windowsill. Remember that the family has likely received many other sympathy flowers as well that are taking up space.

Offend religious beliefs.

Giving funeral flowers isn’t a universal tradition. Both Jewish and Muslim faiths request that people do not have flowers delivered to the funeral. Red flowers can be offensive at a Buddhist funeral, while arrangements shaped like crosses or religious symbols may not align with the deceased’s beliefs. When in doubt, ask the family or a local religious leader.

If you’re shopping for funeral flowers, turn to Ivywood Florist in Enterprise, AL. This flower shop crafts stunning arrangements for every occasion, including birthdays, weddings, proms, and anniversaries. Start browsing their selection online or call (334) 347-7343 to discuss options with a florist.