Estate planning is a heavy topic. No one wants to think about mortality or that their loved ones are going to pass away someday too. As the saying goes, though, failing to plan is planning to fail. The single most effective way to relieve the burden relatives must bear upon your passing is drafting a will. But how do you broach the subject with your parents? The compassionate team at Honolulu’s Wills and Trusts Hawaii has a few tips.

Emphasize Their Wishes 

Talking about wills and trusts is uncomfortable for a lot of reasons. When a younger individual brings up the topic with an older relative, for example, it’s natural for the older party to question their motives. When discussing wills and trusts with your parents, emphasize that you are not after their money. Explain that you only want to ensure their wishes are carried out and that the family has clear guidelines regarding asset distribution, so there are no disputes later during an already stressful time. If money has always been a touchy subject, open with other aspects of estate planning, like advance healthcare directives, which will speak for your parents in the event they are incapacitated.

Take the Lead 

Even though it may seem more important for your parents to create a will than for you to draft one, life is unpredictable. Everyone should create an estate plan, regardless of age or health. Writing your own will before having the conversation with your parents will serve two purposes. First, it will provide considerable firsthand knowledge on the subject, so you can answer all their questions. Second, it will show them you just want to be prepared for all eventualities.

If your parents need help creating or updating their estate plan, turn to a seasoned attorney at Wills and Trusts Hawaii in Honolulu. With over 30 years of experience, this firm focuses solely on estate planning, which allows them to provide the most comprehensive counsel possible. Protect your family’s future and schedule a consultation by calling (808) 792-8777. You can also visit the website to learn more about their services.