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When a loved one passes, the immediate family will typically host a funeral or memorial service and, in some cases, a visitation beforehand, allowing others to pay their respects and say their goodbyes. When preparing to attend a funeral, you might not be sure how to approach it or what to expect. Here are some tips to help you get through the day smoothly.

What Should I Do at a Funeral or Visitation?

1. Dress Appropriately

To show your respect for the deceased and their family, it's important to dress appropriately for the memorial service. When there isn't a set dress code on the invitation, plan to wear dark colors, like black, gray, or navy. Stick to professional attire, like suits and dresses, and avoid wearing logos, eye-catching patterns, or revealing apparel. In some circumstances, though, you may be asked to wear an individual's favorite color or a jersey of their beloved sports team to reflect their passions or personality.

2. Limit Phone Usage

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During a funeral or while socializing at a visitation, try to keep your phone away. Answering emails and calls and leaving on loud ringtones and buzzing text messages can be distracting and disrespectful to other mourners. Turn your phone off or put it on silent mode and tuck it away in your pocket or purse. You may even consider leaving your electronic devices in the car.

3. Bring Flowers or a Sympathy Gift

You can also signal your concern for the family with a heartfelt gift. Consider bringing a floral arrangement or a small gift, such as a framed photo of the deceased, as an indication of your sympathy for the grieving family. When the funeral involves a reception at a family home, you may also bring a meal, a bottle of wine, or a dessert to show you care.

4. Book a Sitter

Funerals and visitations can be challenging for babies, toddlers, and small children. Little ones may want to play, run, or simply seek attention during quiet or emotional moments. If you're concerned about your child's ability to attend the event calmly, secure a babysitter in advance if possible to avoid drawing unwanted attention. 

 

If you're looking for a compassionate funeral home to help you plan a loved one's memorial service, count on DiPonzio Funeral Home. Since 1931, this dedicated local business has helped families throughout Monroe County, NY, plan respectful, meaningful services for their loved ones. To connect with the funeral director, call today at (585) 429-6700. For more information about their services, including grief support, visit their website

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