Planning a funeral arrangement for a deceased loved one is really just one step in a larger process. Many families also hold viewings and wakes, which serve similarly important purposes when it comes to grieving and honoring the life of the person you lost. If you're not completely sure of the differences between these services, consult this guide. 

Viewing

Also known as a visitation, viewings allow mourners to find solace in each other while saying their final goodbyes to their loved one. They're usually held several days before the funeral, and sometimes the morning of the funeral as well. They often occur at funeral homes, but they can also take place in the home of a family member of the deceased. 

It's likely that the body of the deceased will be present in some capacity, either in a casket or urn. Mourners are encouraged to dress formally, especially if the viewing is taking place the same day as the funeral. People of all religious faiths schedule viewings when making funeral arrangements to pay respect to the deceased and provide support to their family. 

Wakes

Unlike viewings, wakes are primarily a Catholic practice. They also give mourners a chance to say goodbye and comfort the family, but they often include some sort of religious ceremony or ritual. The body of the deceased may be present in a casket or urn. 

Wakes can take place in a funeral home, the home of a relative, or at a church. They're usually scheduled before the funeral, but they can also occur on the same day. They have less structure, as people usually come and go during the wake when paying condolences. While less formal than the funeral, attendees must still dress respectfully. 

Funerals

The funeral service is the final, official send-off of the deceased. The service usually takes place in the funeral home. The casket is closed and all mourners sit as they listen to family members or religious leaders make speeches about the deceased. Once the service is complete, mourners head to the burial if there's a casket or they may head to a family member's home for a final service where the urn will be placed in its designated spot.

Making funeral arrangements is often complex, especially when you're grieving. In Rochester, NY, DiPonzio Funeral Home has dutifully served local families since 1931. They take the time to explain different options to help you make the right decision for your loved one. They also offer a wide range of services, from traditional burials to cremation. Learn more about their services online or call (585) 429-6700 to speak with a funeral director today.