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Watching your friend suffer the loss of a loved one can be a challenging position to be in. In many cases, the best thing you can do is simply be there for them when they need you. Here are three ways to help a friend cope with new emotional challenges as they deal with funeral arrangements.

How to Help a Loved One Cope with a Funeral

1. Alleviate the Burden of Coordinating Details

Funerals are not only emotionally taxing, but they also require a lot of planning. This can be difficult for someone to handle on their own, but it can be easier with your support. To help your friend get through the process as painlessly as possible, try offering to help with the funeral arrangements and coordination. This can include anything from handling sympathy calls and returning messages, to tracking sympathy cards and correspondence, to notifying loved ones of the event, to planning day-of funeral details. If your friend accepts your help, alleviating the burden of the coordination logistics can provide peace of mind and allow them the time to grieve and process their loss.

2. Provide Emotional Support

funeral arrangementsIn addition to help with the logistics of funeral arrangements, sometimes a friend needs emotional support. One of the most effective things you can do as a friend is act as their support system. Whether it’s simply lending an ear, offering advice, keeping your friend company to prevent isolation or anything in between, a little kindness and compassion can go a long way during this difficult time.

3. Offer Ongoing Compassion & Support

Once your friend has finished planning the funeral arrangements, and even after the service, don’t let your support falter. Continue to reach out and provide for your friend’s needs. Call them on difficult days, such as their loved one’s birthday. Send a thoughtful card to let them know you’re thinking of them, and offer to spend quality time if they’re open to the idea.

 

 

For help with funeral arrangements, look no further than DiPonzio Funeral Home. Since 1931, this reputable funeral home has served Monroe County residents, offering steadfast support to grieving families and friends for generations. From funeral pre-planning to coordinating memorial services, they’re committed to assisting you before, during, and after the funeral. To inquire about any of their services, give them a call today at (585) 429-6700 or visit them online for more information.

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