Finding the right words in an emotionally difficult time can be challenging, and it’s especially tough when those words will be etched in stone forever. While your loved one’s life is far too meaningful to ever be summed up in only a few words, taking the time to choose an expression that suits them properly can provide peace of mind for those left behind. To offer their assistance, the compassionate funeral directors from Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home in Rochester, NY, have compiled their best tips for determining what to write on a headstone.

Here are a few things to think about when choosing what to write on your loved one’s headstone:

• Keep it Simple: It’s natural to seek a phrase or statement that fully represents the impact your loved one made, but keep in mind that sometimes, simple statements are best. A phrase such as “Time passes, love remains,” “Forever in our hearts,” or a statement to this effect can put your feelings into words in the simplest way possible.
• Incorporate Their Faith: If your loved one was devoutly religious, consider incorporating a bible verse that held special meaning for them. You could also use a message such as “In God’s care” to incorporate their religion in an all-encompassing manner.
• Choose a Fitting Quote: Perhaps there was an author or another important figure whose words your loved one was always quoting. If that’s the case, you can honor their memory by having a special quote said by that person etched into their tombstone.

The funeral directors at Leo M. Bean And Sons Funeral Home know that some decisions can be especially challenging when you’re grieving. If you need any assistance with funeral arrangements for your loved one, you can speak directly with one of their funeral directors by calling (585) 426-7830. You can also contact them through the funeral home’s website, and connect with them on Facebook.