Sibling arguments are a common occurrence during the reading of the will. It could be that they don’t agree with the division of assets or consider themselves the rightful heirs to the property. If you are a parent to adult children, take a closer look at the following rather than leaving it up to chance. Understanding the root of the issue and implementing a few precautions could go a long way toward preserving your kids' relationship. 

Why Might Siblings Fight Over a Will?

One of the top reasons for a fight is that the siblings have no idea what to expect. As a result, they might start making assumptions about their supposed inheritance. If the will doesn’t quite match, they’re left with a harder path forward. 

Fights also break out when there appears to be an unequal division of assets. For example, you could put one sibling in charge of the property while the others are given access to savings and investment accounts. Even though it might seem fair to you, there could be a sentimental value in the home that causes arguments to break out. 

Since estate planning also typically involves designating a power of attorney and establishing what you want to happen in certain medical situations, there might also be disharmony over who you appoint.

What Steps Can You Take to Prevent a Misunderstanding?

Once you write the first draft of the will, set up a family meeting. Explain the purpose of all of your documents and go over the list in detail. Allow time for your kids to ask questions and express their opinions. It’s the easiest way to make them feel heard and ensure they have a hand in the estate planning process. 

If they have suggestions, take them into consideration and make the necessary adjustments. While their idea of an equal division might not quite match your own, it could reduce the risk of an argument. You should also explain why you feel a certain person might be better to serve as your health care proxy or the executor of the estate. For example, they might live closer. 

Circumstances can change, so make sure you perform regular reviews and keep your children up-to-date.

Start planning for the future by reaching out to David R. Webb, Attorney at Law. Located in Lincoln, NE, this local attorney has over 30 years of experience and is well-versed in the intricacies of estate planning. As your personal representative, he commits to upholding clients’ rights and will construct a document that’s specific to your needs. Call (402) 477-7577 to schedule a consultation, or visit his website for additional information on his services.