Funeral services are sensitive occasions. For those not close to the deceased, it can be challenging to know how to act in the family’s presence. Luckily, Meadows Funeral Home of Monroe, GA, is committing to making these services comfortable for everyone involved. Here, they list a few visitation and funeral etiquette tips for concerned guests.

How to Act at Visitations & Funeral Services

1. Dress Respectfully

A visitation is a set time when friends can meet with the deceased’s family and offer their condolences, often at the family’s home or a funeral home. During the occasion, the body may be present, or it could just be a time to gather before the ceremony and console the deceased’s closest loved ones. For visitations, dress conservatively, but not formally. During the funeral, wear something formal and black, unless the family requests otherwise.

2. Know Your Place

When you arrive at the visitation, remember that the focus is on consoling those who are grieving most. If you weren’t very close to the deceased or their family, don’t stay too long—simply offer your condolences, take a lap through the room, and leave. If you were close with anyone involved, stay as long as you’re wanted and offer to help in any way you can. If you’re not sure where you stand, look around the room at who is present and how long they are staying, and try to take cues from the family members.

3. Don’t Draw Attention

It’s normal to become emotional at a funeral service. However, make sure you don’t overshadow the deceased’s closest family members and loved ones. Allow yourself to cry softly and speak at a low volume. If you feel the need to sob or cry out, leave the room and take a minute to compose yourself before coming back. When you see the deceased’s closest survivors, offer them a handkerchief, a seat, or a helping hand to show them you prioritize their needs.

If you’re concerned about how to act at a funeral or visitation, turn to Meadows Funeral Home for help. They have been catering to local families for almost 40 years. To plan a funeral service, call (770) 267-9406. Visit the website for more information on their chapel and viewing rooms.