After a loved one passes away, there are many preparations to make for the person’s funeral service. But this is just one of several events that you might choose to hold in honor of their life. Wakes and vigils are also common. But how do they differ from funerals, and when is it appropriate to have them? Here’s what you should know.

Wakes

Sometimes referred to as a viewing or visitation, the wake is a gathering that occurs before the funeral service. It may be informal, allowing loved ones to gather and provide comfort to one another. The body may be present in a casket, either with an open or closed top. This can provide loved ones some closure as they have the chance to say a private farewell to the person. 

Refreshments are usually offered, and the event typically takes place in the family’s home or the home of a close loved one. Wakes were traditionally linked to Irish culture. As immigrants from Ireland arrived in the United States in the 19^th century, they introduced the custom there. 

Vigils

Wakes evolved from vigils, a Northern European custom during which people would sit with the body of the deceased and watch over it while praying for the person. The vigil spanned from day to night. 

Part of the importance of this event was due to superstition. Those who sat vigil were of the belief that evil spirits could overtake the body after death if the person wasn’t closely watched. Today they are less common, but if a family does choose to sit vigil it is usually done in their home.

Funerals

A funeral service is a gathering where loved ones come together to honor the person. It customarily takes place in a church, and can include spiritual readings, music, and eulogies. The body is present either in an open or closed casket. 

While typically formal, many modern funerals are planned as more informal celebrations of life tailored to honor the person’s life in the most fitting way possible. It may include slideshows, videos, and stories from mourners. After the service, either a burial or a cremation service is held.
 

As you prepare to say goodbye to your loved one, let the caring and compassionate staff at Johnson-Kennedy Funeral Home Inc. be by your side every step of the way. Proudly serving families throughout Canandaigua, NY, for more than a century, they can assist with planning the funeral service, holding a memorial service, and arranging for burial or cremation. Visit the website for more information, or call (585) 394-4280 to speak with a representative.