If a loved one has chosen cremation services, you may find yourself unsure of what to do with the ashes. Spreading the ashes somewhere meaningful can bring closure and serve as a beautiful final farewell. While this ancient symbolic act can make some uncomfortable, it's important to make this decision with your loved ones and family. Use this guide for ways you can safely and thoughtfully honor a deceased loved one. 

Helpful Advice for Scattering Cremated Ashes

1. Use a Scattering Urn 

After the cremation services have taken place, the ashes are protected in a sealed plastic bag within a box. Transferring the ashes into a scattering urn allows you to spread the ashes slowly and evenly in a manner that you can control. Each family member or friend can take turns spreading some of the remains after saying a few words, making for a very meaningful and inclusive tribute to your loved one's life. 

2. Consider the Location

Choose a location that holds significance to you or your loved one. If the recently departed loved hiking, you may want to choose their favorite trail. If the departed loved the ocean, you could take a boat out on the water, spreading the ashes at sea. You may want to choose a location you can easily return to. Many find this to be a special way to connect to a loved one's spirit.

While ashes are organic and will not harm the surrounding environment, it's important to research the location to ensure you don't need a permit to spread ashes. Places like sports grounds, national parks, and historic landmarks usually require written permission. 

3. Travel Carefully

If you are choosing to spread the ashes at a specific destination that requires air travel, be sure to put the ashes in a secure container. Depending on the airline, you may need to include a copy of the death certificate. If you choose to ship the remains rather than traveling with them, make sure to send them via the U.S. Postal Service Priority Express. They are the only delivery service that can transport remains. 

After losing a loved one, it can feel like there are very few ways to find comfort. The compassionate and professional funeral directors at Johnson-Kennedy Funeral Home Inc. do everything they can to ensure this part of the process is as seamless and thoughtful as possible. Their funeral home in Canandaigua, NY, dates back over 100 years and is dedicated to preserving and celebrating the traditions and customs of your family. Clients are provided continuous and steadfast support while planning funeral, graveside, or cremation services. To talk to one of their funeral directors, call (585) 394-4280 or visit the website.