Losing a loved one is often a stressful, emotional time, so grief counseling may be helpful. However, children experiencing grief for the first time may have trouble understanding their emotions from the loss, especially if they were close to their loved one. Though grief can be a confusing process for anyone, you can use the following tips to help your child cope with their loss in a healthy way. 

How to Help Your Young Child Cope With the Loss of a Loved One

1. Actively Listen and Provide Comfort

Parents never know how their children will react to devastating news like the death of a loved one. Some may cry, become angry, or ask questions. Sometimes, children show no outward reaction, which is OK. Give your child a safe space to ask questions and express themselves freely. You can also comfort them with hugs and spend a few moments together. If your child appears to struggle with the news, it may be helpful to seek grief counseling for assistance. 

2. Engage Your Child in a Developmentally Appropriate Way

Adults and children can react to death differently. The first experience with grief can be confusing and painful. However, some children are too young to grasp the concept of death, but older children tend to have a better understanding. 

When discussing the passing of a relative or friend, consider your child's age and development and choose words carefully. Though you may want to explain the situation thoroughly, the details might be too complex and overwhelming for your little one to comprehend. Try to answer their questions without volunteering too much information. With older children, you may divulge more facts based on your child's understanding of the permanence of death. 

3. Explain Events as They Happen

As a parent, you may or may not want your child to attend a funeral or memorial service. Going to the funeral can be helpful for some older children who want to say goodbye to their loved ones and spend time around family for support. The decision is up to you and your child. 

However, if you agree they should attend a funeral, memorial, or wake, it is helpful to prepare them for what they may see. The first time attending a ceremony of this nature can be overwhelming. Before the event, discuss some things that might occur, such as people crying, a casket viewing, a casket burial, and people hugging each other and speaking quietly. You can also discuss post-service activities like sharing memories about the deceased and dining with family. 

Cornwell Funeral Home has helped families in Dardanelle, AR, plan respectful funeral and memorial services to honor the lives of their deceased loved ones. Since 1898, this locally owned funeral home and its caring staff have supported the community with everything from grief counseling services to funeral pre-planning. They specialize in personalized, dignified care, so call (479) 229-2524 or visit their website for more information.