The end of life is a difficult topic, especially for those you love. If you're looking ahead and making funeral plans, it may be hard for your adult children to accept or even to think about. But it's important to let your children know your wishes so they can be carried out. Here are some ways to make this discussion easier.

How to Talk About Making Pre-Arranged Funeral Plans

1. Tailor Your Approach

You know your children best. Some people respond well to a formal talk at a planned time, while others would rather have a spontaneous discussion. Some children will want to joke and try to lighten the mood, while others will handle it better if you're serious and factual. Think about your child's personality and plan your approach around their needs.

2. Explain Why

There are good, logical reasons to talk about funeral plans now instead of waiting. Make it clear you're doing this to ease the burden on your family, both emotionally and financially, and to ensure your wishes are followed after your departure.

3. Involve Them

While there may be some aspects of your funeral service you feel strongly about, other decisions may matter less to you. Get your child's input in these areas so they can be involved and feel they still have some control in their lives.

4. Take Breaks

The conversation about your funeral plans doesn't have to happen all at once. When emotions run high, it's a good idea to table the discussion for a few hours, days, or even weeks. You can always come back to it.

5. Keep Them Looped In

If you make any major decisions, change your plans, or especially if you begin to make financial arrangements with a funeral home, let your children know. This way, not only will they continue to feel involved, but they'll be up to date on your decisions.

For help making personalized funeral plans, contact Abriola Parkview Funeral Home in Trumbull, CT. Our family-run establishment has more than a century of history serving Fairfield County and the Greater Bridgeport community with compassionate, respectful, and professional funeral planning. To begin, call us at (203) 373-1013 or reach out online.