A divorce lawyer can handle the administrative aspects of ending a marriage to free up your energy for the more emotional side of divorce—like sharing the news with your loved ones. Many people struggle to tell family and friends because they're worried about potential reactions. Learn how you can have a productive conversation about your divorce with those you love.

How to Tell Your Loved Ones You're Getting a Divorce

1. Get to the Point

Be straightforward about the state of your marriage. While putting off the conversation can be tempting, addressing it head-on is often better than letting people speculate. In general, it's often best to start the conversation with your closest family first before moving on to others.

2. Decide Beforehand How Much to Share

You're not obligated to give your friends and family every detail of your divorce. Decide in advance how much you're comfortable sharing. Avoid painting your ex as a villain—especially if you have children you will need to co-parent going forward. You also don't want to force people to choose sides.

3. Be Prepared for Questions

It's often best to have the details of your separation settled with a divorce lawyer before you have these conversations. Friends and family will likely ask questions—like how you and your ex plan to manage childcare. Knowing the answers can spare you stress and help keep everyone on the same page.

4. Stand Your Ground

Be prepared for a variety of responses. People may express surprise or dismay. They may ask if you've tried therapy or ask other personal questions. Be courteous but firm. It's your marriage, your life, and your decision.

In Torrington, CT, trust The Law Office and Mediation Center of Jeannine M. Talbot as you navigate the divorce process. With more than 20 years of experience, Jeannine takes a straightforward yet compassionate approach, guiding her clients through the legal process, answering their questions, and setting realistic expectations for the outcomes. Visit her website or call (860) 482-9004 to request a consultation.