Parenthood can be exciting but also physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausting. Apart from learning how to care for their first baby, couples also struggle taking time off to indulge in self-care. However, a mini-trip or short vacation can give you a much-needed pause, so you can rest, reconnect with your spouse, and keep your relationship healthy. Whether you're planning a weekend trip or a “staycation” at a hotel, here are some useful tips for your first night away from your bundle of joy.

Do:

Get help from your family.

For your peace of mind, leave your little one with someone you trust, such as your parents, in-laws, or other close family members. It may also help a lot if you ask the sitter to come to your home instead of bringing your child to their house. This arrangement ensures minimal disruptions on your baby's routine.

Prepare the essentials.

Make a note of emergency numbers and the contact details of your hotel. Also, write the baby's regular schedule and their favorites or preferences. Many parents leave an item infused with their smell, such as a used shirt, to comfort their child, especially before bedtime.

Don't:

Stress out.

It's normal to feel uneasy the first time you spend the night away from your little one. However, stressing over how your child is doing will defeat the purpose of your trip. Trust your sitter, and try to enjoy your vacation. 

Feel guilty.

Some new parents can't even go through the process of booking a hotel because they feel guilty over leaving their baby behind. But keep in mind that taking care of your relationship with your spouse is essential for a happy family life. Also, it's never selfish to take a short break, relax, and get some much-needed sleep. Self-care allows you to come back refreshed and ready to fulfill your responsibilities as a parent.

If you're looking for a hotel in Carlsbad, NM, where you can unwind and recharge, check out Stevens Inn. The property is only a short driving distance from the Carlsbad Caverns National Park and other local attractions. You can also enjoy their services and amenities including a complimentary breakfast buffet, high-speed internet, fitness center, and an outdoor pool. Call (575) 887-2851 to schedule your stay, or visit their website for a list of their amenities.