After a loved one passes away, you may have trouble finding the right wording for their headstone. It isn’t easy to sum up someone’s life in just a few words. Also, the inscription needs to be sensitive and appropriate among the other gravesites. Use these guidelines to help you write a meaningful inscription that will showcase the unique life and personality of your loved one. 

Do:

Keep it brief.

When writing an inscription, you may be tempted to write a novel about your loved one. However, headstones don’t have a lot of space, so choose your words wisely.

Focus on who they were as a person and base your inscription on that. For example, your loved one may have had a unique sense of humor or a love of nature. A humorous saying or a thought-provoking quote can show visitors the deceased’s character without long anecdotes or overly descriptive sentences. 

Ask family members and friends for help.

If you’ve come up with a few ideas for your loved one, read them to your family and friends. They can provide feedback and suggest different ways to improve the message.

Working with a variety of your loved one’s closest family members will help you create an inscription that perfectly encapsulates their essence. Consider reaching out to the deceased’s friends, even if you don’t know them well. They can give you a fresh perspective and even share cherished memories of your loved one.

Don’t:

Hurry the process.

There’s no need to rush writing an inscription for your loved one’s grave marker. While the owner of the headstone can have engravings altered at a later time, it's best to choose an option that will endure. Take as much time as you need to think it over. Give yourself ample time to mourn the loss of your loved one before choosing an epitaph for your family member.

Feel restricted.

Standard phrases like "rest in peace" or "in loving memory" are pithy, meaningful, and time-tested. However, these aren't your only options. Consider experimenting with the voice or audience of the inscription. For example, you might write the epitaph in first person, as though the deceased were speaking to passersby about their life. You could also use a rhyme scheme or other stylistic flourish.

If you’re looking for a memorable headstone for your loved one, turn to the professionals at Tri-County Memorials in Waterford, CT. The company has provided custom monuments, headstones, and gravestones since 1973. Their team members are known for their quality craftsmanship and attention to detail, and they’ll work with you to ensure your loved one is remembered in the way they deserve. To learn more about their services, call (860) 443-8744 or visit their website.