An epitaph is the inscription featured on an individual’s headstone, monument, or other grave marker. Since it will be permanent, the message calls for careful consideration. When composing an epitaph for a loved one, here are a few factors to bear in mind.

How to Write an Epitaph for a Loved One

1. Don’t Rush

Sometimes, the shortest pieces of writing are the most difficult. Fortunately, you don’t have to rush the epitaph. While many end-of-life arrangements have to be made promptly, you can take your time choosing the right headstone and the phrasing that it will feature. This means you won’t have to hurry through the process of brainstorming ideas and thinking carefully about your loved one to come up with the perfect saying. 

2. Highlight Their Life

The typical epitaph features a brief phrase or two about the individual’s life, including their familial relations. Someone who was more straightforward in nature may have these details, along with their birth date and date of passing, featured on their headstone. For a free-spirited individual, you might consider incorporating a line from a poem or song, while a passage from a religious text may be more fitting for someone who was devoted to worship.  

3. Gather Feedback 

Don’t feel as if you have to make this important decision all on your own. You can also consult other family members and loved ones to gather their input. Ask this group of individuals to provide feedback on the options you’ve presented or write up a few suggestions of their own. Just be sure to only have a few select individuals weigh in, as the process could become overwhelming otherwise.

No matter what epitaph is featured on them, the beautiful headstones and other memorials from McGee Monuments honor the lives of those who have passed with quality materials made to last. Located in Rochester, NY, this team has been serving the community for more than a century and offers more than 100 different designs to choose from. Browse through their options online or discuss your needs by calling (585) 546-4602.