When a loved one has an addiction, you want to talk with them about your concerns and offer them help. However, talking to someone with an addiction can be challenging, as you likely do not understand what they're thinking and feeling. However, the following are proven strategies that family and friends can use to have a productive conversation with their loved ones. 

How to Talk to Someone With an Addiction

1. Time It Right

Prepare what you want to say to your loved one ahead of time, then wait for the right moment to begin the conversation. Avoid speaking to them when they are under the influence. Wait until they are sober, as this leaves them clearheaded. Some people choose to have a conversation when their loved one is hungover, as they are unavoidably dealing with the consequences of their addiction at the moment and may take it more seriously. 

2. Be Supportive

Alcohol or drug addiction is a genuine disease, so even if you are feeling frustrated or angry, it's best to avoid letting your loved one see this. Being supportive and kind through your behavior and speaking will show them that you care and they can trust you. They are more likely to talk to you honestly if you listen and support them rather than get angry or criticize them. 

3. Set Clear Boundaries

Your unconditional love and support will protect your relationship, but don't let someone with an addiction take advantage of this. It's better for both of you if you set clear boundaries on what you will allow. If they are unwilling to follow these boundaries or make changes, you can draw a line such as not living with them any longer. This shows your loved one just how much their addiction bothers you and can motivate them to change. 

When your loved one is ready to get the help they need, turn to The LCADA Way in Lorain, OH. This treatment and rehab facility offers a full array of services to overcome addiction and stay on the road to recovery. Learn more about their services on their website, or call (440) 989-4900 to schedule a consultation.