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If you’re preparing for a loved one’s funeral, creating a simple and loving obituary is an essential part of the process. It notifies the community of your loved one’s passing, giving them the chance to offer condolences or attend the funeral, and it's a small tribute to their life and accomplishments. To write an effective message, here are a few guidelines to follow.

Do:

Include basic information.

Almost every obituary has a few elements in common. These include the name of the departed, their maiden name if appropriate, their dates of birth and death, their most recent residence, and the names of their family members. You should also include three to five of their major life events and accomplishments, such as marriage, education, and military service.

Add personal details.

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The personal details of the obituary should remind readers of your loved one's unique personality and keep their memory alive. You might include hobbies they loved, their activities in the community, and anything they’re known for. You can even include some humor, if that would suit your loved one’s personality, but you should be careful not to come off as flippant.

Don’t:

Make it too long.

The right length for an obituary is usually around five short paragraphs. If it's longer, it may not fit in the provided space in a newspaper or on a web page. Information about the funeral should be its own paragraph for the greatest visibility.

Include sensitive information.

Listing your loved one’s home address in their obituary can act as an advertisement that the house is empty. Addresses and other sensitive information can also be used for identity theft. Instead of listing these facts, provide contact information so that anyone who needs to know these details can get in touch and ask for them directly.


 

For more assistance with funeral planning, contact Adzima Funeral Home in Stratford, CT. Serving the Fairfield County community for over 100 years, this family-owned funeral home has caring staff on call 24/7 to help make this process easier for you and your family. They'll help you write an appropriate obituary that includes all the necessary information. For help, call (203) 375-2200 or reach out online.

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