When a family member moves into an assisted living community, they may need time to get used to the new setting, people, and lifestyle. It might feel awkward or uncomfortable to stop by during this period of adjustment, but it’s important to show your love and support. Use the tips below to build meaningful connections during your visits.

How to Plan a Successful Visit to an Assisted Living Facility

1. Show Warmth and Support

Even if you feel nervous, be sure to greet your loved one warmly and show them the same amount of affection they’re used to. Whether that means big hugs or firm handshakes, this will show that despite their living situation changing, your relationship is still the same. You are there to see them, show your support, and prevent feelings of loneliness, so be friendly and positive.

2. Come Prepared With Activities

Bringing sentimental items and activities can help prevent stiff moments of silence. Think about what would facilitate conversation. Old photographs and albums, cards, their favorite snacks, board games, or a playlist of their preferred music can quickly lighten the mood and get the conversation flowing.

3. Spend One-on-One Time Together

Seniors in assisted living only see their loved ones when they visit, so be present while you are there. Set your phone on silent. If you are in a noisy common area, consider moving to somewhere quieter. External stimuli may make your loved one feel distracted, agitated, or overwhelmed. Try a peaceful walk outside or a nice lunch out for a change of scenery.

4. Be Mindful of Their Condition

In many cases, seniors move into assisted living because a health condition prevents them from properly taking care of themselves. Understand the changes they may go through because of their illness or disability. For example, if they are in a wheelchair, try to spend your visit at eye level. If they are developing dementia or Alzheimer’s, learn more about their condition so you’ll know what to expect and how to approach them respectfully.

5. Establish a Schedule

After your first visit, plan future visits strategically and come on a regular schedule so your loved one knows what to expect. Most seniors have more energy in the morning or right after lunch, but you can always ask them or a staff member about the best time to show up. As your loved one gets accustomed to their new home, try to avoid times when they might be engaged in activities or meals with other residents.
 

If your family is looking for an attentive and welcoming assisted living community for your loved one, turn to Merry Heart Health Center in Succasunna, NJ. Serving Morris, Sussex, Essex, Somerset, Hudson, Warren, and Passaic counties, this facility offers customized senior care plans tailored to your loved one’s needs, from skilled nursing and long-term care to help with daily tasks. Learn more about their services online or call (973) 584-4000 to speak with a friendly team member.