The holidays can be a difficult time of year if you have a loved one in hospice care. Maintaining a festive mood can be challenging when dealing with a terminal illness, and if your loved one is in an in-patient facility, it's likely harder to maintain old traditions. However, there are ways to bring the festive spirit to your loved one in hospice care to ensure their holiday is special. 

3 Ways to Share the Holidays With a Family Member in Hospice

1. Bring Festive Activities to Your Loved One

It might not be possible to participate in old traditions like going caroling, but there are quieter activities that your loved one can still enjoy, like decorating already-baked Christmas cookies, hanging ornaments on a tree, or reading a holiday story together. Try to space out activities, so your loved one gets the rest they need. Staggering visits from friends and family can help avoid feelings of loneliness while preventing overstimulation.

2. Make Time for Reminiscing & Honest Conversations

The holidays can be a nostalgic time of year, especially for those who may be facing their final holiday season. Be prepared for reminiscing—for example, you might go through an old photo album with your loved one. These nostalgic moments may raise more serious topics, like your loved one's end-of-life wishes. Though it may feel sad to have these conversations, try not to gloss over them. Instead, taking an honest approach and letting your loved ones share their views can help them cope with the situation.

3. Adhere to Their Care Routine

Individuals in hospice often have a routine for activities like bathing, eating, and taking medication, so you'll want to ensure that the holiday activities don't interfere with their care. A professional hospice care provider can help provide reminders for important measures like pain management throughout the festivities. Their added support helps meet your loved one's needs as you try to enjoy holiday moments together.  

Deer Valley Hospice Care of St. Louis, MO, provides a range of hospice options from in-home care to assisted living facility services. They prioritize each patient's mental well-being and physical comfort, providing compassionate care in a safe environment. They are accredited by the Accreditation Commission for Health Care, ensuring they meet quality standards in their facilities and care. Learn about their levels of hospice care online, or call (314) 396-2211 to speak with a team member.