Although many funerals are religious in nature, this type of service isn’t always suited for every individual. Whether the deceased specifically requested a secular funeral or religion simply didn’t hold a special place in their hearts, the funeral service can be a meaningful celebration of life. 

3 Tips for Planning a Secular Funeral 

1. Focus on Your Loved One

If you don’t want a member of the clergy to lead the service, a family member or friend can direct it in a way that celebrates your loved one’s life. Pass along positive stories about your loved one to the director so that they can share them during the service; everyone in attendance will be able to fondly remember them. Instead of using religious texts, read a story or poem that your loved one particularly enjoyed.

2. Play Meaningful Music

Play music that was meaningful to your loved one before, during and after the celebration of life. You will relay part of who they were and give attendees a way to connect with them. Additionally, think about the mood you want to set. Listen to the music beforehand and decide if you’re looking for a more upbeat or reflective mood. 

3. Involve Family & Friends

Nothing makes a funeral service more personal than involving those who were closest to the deceased. Have family members share eulogies or read stories or poems. If there are family members or friends who are musically talented, have them play a live rendition of songs that were special to the deceased. Remember that there is no blueprint for the perfect service. Whatever was special to your loved one can be incorporated tastefully with the help of the funeral director.

If you’re looking to plan a meaningful funeral for a loved one, the compassionate professionals at Arndt Funeral Home LLC in Monroe County, NY, can help. With more than four decades of funeral service experience, their funeral directors understand how to assist in planning a meaningful service. With a gorgeous chapel and a gazebo in the middle of a memorial garden, the facilities are designed to be a peaceful and comforting environment. For more information about their funeral and cremation services, visit the website or call (585) 225-6350 to speak with a representative.