When you’re grieving the loss of a loved one, decisions such as urn selection can feel overwhelming. If your family member passed without the opportunity to plan ahead, you may be uncertain about which style is most suitable. While the decision is ultimately a personal one, here are some guiding points that may help you along the way.

3 Considerations for Selecting a Loved One’s Urn

1. Identify the Final Resting Place

Certain urns are designed for different purposes. For instance, a burial urn will be made from a sturdy material such as marble or granite to preserve the remains in the soil. If you’re considering placement in a columbarium, you’ll need to know the precise dimensions of the niche to ensure the proper size of the container. For scattering ashes, a vessel designed specifically with a top for pouring should be considered. Finally, if you intend to display the urn at home, a decorative, vase-style is likely best. 

2. Consider the Style 

To choose the style and material, think about your loved one’s personality. While marble and granite are sturdy choices for burial, an eco-friendly option, such as wood, may be better suited for someone who loved nature.

If it’s for display, you’ll still want to consider an option that reflects the person’s individuality. A ceramic container with intricate detailing could honor a person who was artistic, for example, while a brass, bronze, or other metal might reflect someone with a more stoic personality.

3. Add Personal Details 

To add a final personal touch, you might consider customization such as a brass plate or direct engraving. Brass plates are well suited for rectangular or square urns, while direct engraving works best on curved surfaces. In either case, you might opt to have your loved one’s name added, along with a symbol that represents their interests or passions, such as a particular flower or a lighthouse.

The caring team at Porto Funeral Homes in New Haven County, CT, is committed to helping families honor their loved ones in meaningful ways. This funeral home offers traditional funerals, burial and cremation services, and a selection of urns. The team provides a wide range of options to commemorate each individual in the most fitting way possible. Find out more about their services online or call (203) 934-5000 for their West Haven location. Dial (203) 467-3000 for their East Haven location.