The first dance will be one of the most special parts of your wedding. The music and lyrics will help define your first moments as a married couple and create romantic memories for years to come. For this reason, you'll carefully consider which song is perfect. Here's a closer look at how to select the ideal piece your DJ will put on for the reception's big moment.

How to Narrow Down Your First Song Choices

Many couples want a song that relates to their relationship. Think about tunes that carry special weight in your romance story. Was there a song on the radio during your first kiss? Did you listen to the same album over and over on a long road trip? Take a trip down memory lane with your partner and come up with a list of choices that are meaningful to both of you. No matter what the reason is, choosing a song with sentimental value is guaranteed to make your first dance extra special. Even if you don’t find a winner immediately, this will help form an idea of the genre and lyrical style you’re both interested in. 

You should also consider what tone you want your first dance to have. While a simple, slow dance is traditional in many weddings, some couples choose to mix things up. You may want to choreograph a dance routine or perform a funny bit, which would take your selection process in a new direction. 

Finally, make sure you and your partner are on the same page. For example, if you love jazz, but your partner isn't a fan, don’t get your heart set on a jazzy tune without discussing it together.  

What to Keep in Mind

Above all, remember that this moment is about you and your partner. Don’t feel like you have to pick your sister’s favorite song or the one that played at your parents’ wedding unless that's truly what you want. Feel free to think outside the box and play whatever fits the tone of your wedding the best. 

When you’ve landed on a song you like, do a quick practice dance with it. Make sure the speed and lyrics feel appropriate for the type of dance you’ll be doing. You should also send a copy to your DJ to confirm that they won't experience any issues playing it on your big day. 

If you’re planning a wedding, reach out to Island Sound in St. Simons Island, GA. This full-service entertainment company provides everything you need for your big day, including DJ services, lighting, and videography. Visit their website to learn about their packages or call (877) 634-7725 to start planning today.