These days, social media platforms like Instagram®, Facebook®, and Twitter® have become integral parts of everyday life. However, it’s important to approach these apps with a bit more caution when someone passes away. If you’re looking for answers on social media use regarding a funeral service, use these frequently asked questions for guidance. 

A Guide to Posting About Funeral Services on Social Media

When is the right time to post?

Everyone grieves at a different pace, but when someone passes away, it’s crucial to show respect to their closest loved ones. As such, you should never post about a death as soon as you know about it. Wait until the family has made a public post so that they can announce the passing in the way that works for them.

What can I talk about?

Pay attention to how the deceased’s closest loved ones are talking about their passing. For example, if they’re not mentioning how or why they died, you shouldn't reveal this information to the public. 

There may be a reason why the family wants to keep the details private. Instead, focus on expressing your condolences, and describe the positive impact the individual had on your life.

Should I make a post at the funeral service?

Whatever you do, try to keep social media out of your experience at the funeral. Turn your phone on silent, and keep it in your purse or pocket—or even in your car. When you're not taking photos or typing on your smartphone, you'll have more time to connect with people face to face and grieve together.

Do I need to formulate my own post?

If you were very close with the deceased, you may feel a strong urge to speak about their character and honor their memory with your own Facebook or Instagram post. However, if you were simply an acquaintance, or haven’t spoken with the individual in years, this isn’t necessary. In this case, it may be best to stick to subtle comments and replies to the individual’s closest friends and family members or message them privately.

If you need to arrange a funeral service for a loved one, reach out to Donovan Funeral Home in Goshen, NY. These professionals have served grieving families throughout Orange County for over 130 years, helping them create meaningful ceremonies for their loved ones. Whether you’re arranging a burial or cremation or pre-planning a funeral service, their compassionate staff will guide you through every step of the process. Learn more about this funeral home on their website, or call (845) 294-6422 to schedule a meeting with a funeral director.